A Rosary of Woman Things
by Suzette Haden Elgin
 
 
Praise be to all neglected woman-things, called trivial, called shameful, time out of mind. We will name them over and over again to do them honor.
Beautiful is the woman-blood, 
constant as the moon; crowning the months of a woman, velvet and scarlet, carrying the nourishment of the living, in case it should be needed; easily offered and no return demanded,  free and wholesome and always freshly made.
Beautiful is the woman-flesh, 
abundant as the light; changing as the earth changes,  storing fat beneath it against the long winters  when all the food there is  may have to be given away  to the young and the male,
 that have no such provision. 
Beautiful are the wrinkles and the lines,
 bountiful as the beds of streams and rivers;  formed on the face and throat by the flow of time,  proudly and joyfully worn, and no beard needed.  Beautiful also the silver lines made by the growing babe on the strong sheltering belly of its mother.
Beautiful are the many-colored quilts;
 splendid as sewn rainbows,  various in their patterns.  Beautiful the crazy quilt that lets nothing be wasted;  beautiful the friendship quilt that helps us remember; beautiful the fancy quilts like cathedral windows,  but without their shameful squandering of this world's goods,  beautiful the plain quilts that warm both eye and body.  Beautiful also the listing of their names -- Love in the Mist. Log Cabin.  Basket of Flowers.
Beautiful are the ways of a woman's hair;
 loose in the sunlight, loose on a rounding pillow, braided in many braids, wound in a diadem, combed tight to the head like a scarf of satin, wild in a froth of curls like a flower that does not fret.  And let us honor especially the white hair of the old woman, as snow honors the earth at the end of autumn.
Beautiful are the letters that women write each other,
 preserving their days, setting them aside for later, that they may be examined again and well remembered, and still more learned from them; saying "I was just thinking of you and I thought I'd write." Saying, "Know you are dear to me; know you are in my heart."
Beautiful are the words that women say,
 ample in their patience as glowing water; beautiful are those words  going round corners in search of what does good.  Praise be to all neglected woman things,  called trivial, called shameful, called foolish, time out of mind.  We will name them over and over again to do them honor.
"Rosary of Woman things" was published in "The Beltane Papers, A Journal of Women's Mysteries"  Issue Six -- Winter/Spring 1995. 
Published by, The Brideswell Collective, 1333 Lincoln St. #174, Bellingham WA 98226.
 
 
 
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